What kind of Parents could do THAT to their OWN Daughter?

So basically it breaks down like this.

July 2016- I meet M’s Parents , L.H. & D.H., for the first time. From the start I knew I would need to keep emails, phone messages, voice mails. M was supposed to          leave with them the morning of her parents 2 day visit w/daughter. Instead, Mrs.H would beat her daughter up in hotel parking lot and kick her out on the side of the road.

Nov 2016- Mr. H CONS me into flying to Nanaimo, with tickets he paid for and sent to me via email, to come and drive his 8.5 month pregnant daughter and her stuff      through the mountains in late fall. Citing out of concern for his daughter’s well being. (was revealed 1 day later that he did it to get her off the Island and to appease the unreasonable Mrs.H’s extreme measures)

Nov.19,2017- Baby James in born on this day in Red Deer, Alberta. 5 days after, M was notified  at the hospital that Family and Social Services were TAKING baby and she would  NOT get her baby back. They acted upon FALSE testimony and out right LIES          from her OWN parents. L.H. & D.H.. (I have emails where she admits later to doing this out of spite to hurt her daughter)

From That point on until Feb.22 0, 2017, Myself and M drove back and forth from              Edmonton to Red Deer 2 times a week so she could comply with Social Services                    and see her baby for an hour per visit.

March 2017-  After a rare moment in clarity and reason, L.H. & D.H. re-enter their  daughter’s life, throw her a bit of money and tell her THEY will get baby James          back for her.(To basically make up for what they had done and the pain they had                caused) What was to take 8 weeks, turned into 7 months.

June 2017- After going through the courts to get baby James back, her parents  suddenly tell their daughter they are NOT going forward with this process. Their reasons mostly was because someone saw me drop her off at her appointments. Seems harmless enough. You see they HATE me because I gave M a voice. I told her it was her god given right to live her OWN LIFE on her terms. This is the side of these people nobody sees and nobody knows. Let me explain.

From the first meeting in July 2016 her parents came into town like they were the new sheriff. At one point walking into MY families shop, and her Dad questioning me as to our last apartment ordeal which they had NOTHING to do with. I nearly lost my cool and basically telling him he better take a step back and watch how he is talking to me!! Who the fuck is this asshole telling me how to live and questioning my financial status. I stood up to these arrogant, manipulator’s of circumstance! Maybe they controlled M but they didn’t even know me and could/would NEVER control me! But for M is wasn’t/isn’t so easy. I had first insight into this in Feb 2016. When I first met M we were at my place just chatting about some random topic and then she began to tell me that she couldn’t let her parents know she DROVE. ??? Drove? You mean like ‘Drive a vehicle?’ Yup!..I know right. Why?? (What other question CAN there be?)

This is what I was told. She began to tell me how her childhood was. About forced EVERYTHING! Had to be her parents way or the extreme measures way! Her parents had basically instilled in her that IF she chose to DRIVE and have her own CAR that in their eyes they would see that as a sign of distrust and they would assume she was out ‘doing bad things’..(I bet by now you’re confused. Thinking maybe I am just wording or explaining it wrong,.I wish i was but I’m not) When they would call I had always understood that they KNEW where she was, and that they would almost certainly know she had to BE STAYING WITH ME.  How else did they figure she was able to live in Edmonton, yet be able ravel to Red Deer twice a week all winter long to make her appointments? They sent her $300 every 4-5 weeks..that alone wouldn’t even cover Bus Tickets. I later found out I was to be ‘unknown’ in this journey. THEY actually that M was doing all these things on her own. The reality of it was this. My FAMILY embraced M from the get go. Like any other friend or family that comes into contact with MY family. They are always met with a hug, great company and gracious hosts.  But not this set of unethical and vengeful intent parents. They never once even hinted to thank me or my family for taking care of M for the previous 16 months, unconditionally. And for No Cost.

So here we were less than a month away from Baby James being reunited with his Mom. That at the very least would be a major hurdle. But they were actually going to WITHDRAW their application because they found out she was WITH ME!  All stemming from me NOT staying at their house when I came to visit in October of 2016.

But after nearly crushing their daughter’s hopes they reconsidered and I’m sure some sort of ‘forced’ deal was made to get them back into the ring to get Baby James. Although I cannot say for sure a deal was made. During this time was also when I was surprised by the overdue bill i got in April 2017 saying I owed ‘Maintenance Enforcement-$4243.00 CAD. To the mother of Baby James’, who had/has been under my care and cost ALREADY! So because I am in start up and didn’t have a lot of extra money, EVER, I lost my driver’s license. To get it back, I had to pay that bill then pay off ALL my fines before a new license was issued. The cost severely put me behind. The residual effects of THEIR extreme measure’s and tactic’s to gain control over other people’s lives and the life of their own daughter is staggering. Have you ever tried to get a government agency or court imposed judgement overturned? Or gotten someone who COULD help you …Listen…….If not for the $1500 retainer fee or cost to file. IT IS NEARLY IMPOSSIBLE!

Sept. 2017. After all the heartache and all the tears and all the emails and talks with Social Services that day had arrived. M and her baby were going home together!! Custody was awarded to L.H. & D.H. because I ALLOWED IT. The judge called me in the middle of the proceedings to make sure i understood what I was ‘Giving up’. I understood what I was doing. I did NOT want to do it. For fear of the ‘What If’s”. But to finally see Baby James with HIS Mom, M, It was the ONLY way. But I ensured by asking if it meant ‘forever’. And it did NOT. I could apply for MY rights back at any time. Her PARENTS AGREED! So for the first time EVER, M and Baby James went back to Qualicum Beach, B.C. with her parents where they would stay and I would find a way to meet and see the little boy I had come to love and miss. To this day I still have not held him, played with him or given the chance to love him.

Jan.2018- After travelling half way to Vancouver with the plan to receive help getting their, falls apart. A phone call takes place that sets off a focused and directed path to bring MY son HOME!

Feb 1,2018- ‘Can you pick me up at the airport?’ it was M. Before any other question is asked ‘where is Baby?’   She says she can’t talk right now but meet her there at this time. (she often NEVER answered a direct question. And I often knew what that meant) I would ask her 3 more times before she even left the island. ‘Where Is BABY!?’

48 hrs after picking up M without Baby James, (My heart sank and has been pounding ever since) i found out that her parents had done the unthinkable. Because of that phone call, where I voiced my hatred and sheer anger towards them for every thing they have done against M and myself and Baby James they KICKED HER OUT of their home. Because of their hatred for me. Separated Mother from her Son for the THIRD time in less than 2 years. All because Mom wanted her son to know his daddy. We had gotten in a few messenger video calls. He knew my face, my voice. And now he is alone with THEM!! M told me about how she told M to ‘break his spirit’ and to just let him cry in the dark’ She often would tell me about how her mom believes in Breaking a Child’s Spirit’ ..And it makes me SICK!  Rageful! And that’s where he is ..right now.

M has relentlessly been trying to reach him through her parents. Do you think they would return a text? or a voicemail? Or answer a call?  not a one.  I asked her when her Dad drove her to the airport , ‘What was the plan at that point? To get Baby back.” Her reply”He didn’t. All he said was they think it’s best If M goes to Alberta to give her control freak Mom (D.H.) a ‘cooling down period’

Im mistaken, L.H.replied once. After M sent him a heartfelt text message wanting ANY word on Baby James. M asks “Does he miss me?’ His response “He’s pretty young to understand. He is happy with WHOEVER gets up to feed him”

Does anyone reading this post find that remark just disgustingly ignorant?? Uncaring? Unloving?

I am fearful for my son now. M and I believe they are looking to ‘give him up’ to another family!

I cannot allow this to happen. I won’t. THEY ARE THE MOST VILE and VENGEFUL AND UNLOVING people on the planet! They are UNETHICAL , UNMORAL, And they use their money to manipulate people and situations to suit their sick needs to belittle their own daughter and steal her/our baby not once or twice but now a THIRD time in less than 2 years!

Please if anyone knows an agency or has any contact information that could help please leave in the comments.

So now I have a almost 10 year old boy i haven’t seen in Lethbridge, And a 1 year and 4 month old boy who is further away now than ever with 2 mentally compromised people who hate his daddy. For NO REASON.  Either way this is just the beginning for them. It’s about to cost them more than they EVER expected. People of Vancouver Island B.C.. Particularly the community of Qualicum Beach. The first house on the Left at Mill Road. That’s where my SON is! And he needs to be with his Mom and Dad,  who LOVE him!!

For Ryder and James,

Daddy’s comin’

 

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Please, Lord, Don’t take my daughter.

I don’t really know what to say to how to say it. The fear every parent has whether or not our child has a handicap or condition remains the same and shared amongst every parent. We instill good values and morals and guide them the best we can. But ultimately our children will live their own lives and regardless if we approve or not, we remain there for them when they need us and even when they don’t. I am lucky with my daughter Paige. She’s a good girl. Finished school. Doesn’t get in trouble. Is still unsure of what she wants to do with herself but she’ll figure it out. She’s smart and funny and articulate and good things are gonna happen for her down the road. I know it.

Six years ago she woke up in a hospital in northeastern Alberta seemingly unaware of why she was there. It was then disclosed to her that she was diabetic. And not just diabetic, but type 1.  From the hop, she wasn’t happy about it. But then again who is. She would adapt. And she did. Over the past six years, she’s had a few bumps in the road. But in the past 2 months, she had been to the hospital 3x. Twice by ambulance. But as my phone rang on the morning of October 12,2017, everything would change.

Before I even turned the handle of her bedroom door I noticed a very cold draft coming from under her door. Like extremely cold. On the day here in our city, the morning temp was -6C. I knock a couple times, no answer. I open the door and there my little girl half on half off her bed with her arms positioned in an odd way. Besides that, I instantly noticed her color and still movement. I grab her and pull her up onto the bed and immediately call 911. I administer c.p.r. and waited for medics to arrive. It seemed to me that they took a long time but it wasn’t. On the way to the hospital, her heart failed. They got her back but then it failed again later that day.

Currently, she is in I.C.U. being tended to and cared for by some of the best doctors and nurses in the world. She clings to life by a thread on life support. And I am helpless to help her, to change her odds, to give her strength. To give her anything. We can only pray and hope that she keeps fighting and doesn’t give up because I don’t want to give my child to God. I don’t ever want to. It’s supposed to go in order. Isn’t it? Shouldn’t it? So even if you don’t know Paige, Please keep her in your prayers. She’s one of the good ones. You would like her. You really would. Thank you for reading this post. Please do NOT share to Facebook or Instagram.

Many Thanks to the Doctors and Staff at Royal Alex Hospital in Edmonton, AB, Canada

For my little girl,

R.L.

 

Consumer Alert! FXSoftworks.com

So I have come to a point in my business that has basically halted my progress on nearly every level. One might compare my current status as ‘barely breathing’. But not from lack of effort or improper setup of existing systems or bad S.E.O. Instead, hard-working people whether it be online or off, are suckered and lead to believe that what they are paying for IS legitimate and proper. The average consumer doesn’t research every single product or service they need. Instead, we get ready on a Saturday morning and grab the kids and head to the mall. Unaware of just how many vendors and shop owners are waiting for unsuspecting consumers to pop in.

The past few months for me and my business have been turbulent at best. With a clearer understanding of what needs to be done, I have worked tirelessly and vigorously to attain and secure the needs of myself and my business. Through other people’s targeted efforts my ability to move currency about the internet came to an abrupt halt on the very last day of June 2017. This makes doing ANY business online and offline extremely difficult. But iIfound a way. With other marketer’s help and advice from some of the best in the industry, I managed to keep things moving throughout the summer months. Still hindered by frozen accounts and queries falling upon purposely blind eyes and intentional deaf ears I turned to a possible solution I had heard of before but never tried or used.

FXSoftworks.com is the pioneer, or so I’m told, of ethical money adder software. If you go to Youtube or some chat forums you’ll see people from around the globe citing instant cash added right to your Paypal account.  Most of the common threads, however, don’t work. You input your Paypal email, generate said amount and push go. But then a pop-up appears and you’re required to prove your human through a series of offers or tasks you must complete in order to get the transfer. But all the happens is you are lead on an endless loop of offers that are never deemed ‘complete’. But this is NOT FXSoftworks.com software. For the privilege of using their software you must first create an account, then wait 7 days for a special email inviting you to the site. Then and only then you are allowed to purchase one of 4 different software packages, Ranging from the addition of $500/day right up to $20,000/day   and just recently they have the software to add BTC. That’s right. Bitcoin. The new digital currency sweeping the planet and gaining unheard of momentum as it currently sits at 3 times the value of Gold.  Nevertheless, I needed an answer and this was the only option I had.

First off, you should know that FX ONLY takes bitcoin for payments for their software. In retrospect, that in itself is odd.  Regardless, I shelled out $192USD in bitcoin(0.043456btc=$192USD on August 31,2017) Not understanding how the site or the software works I eagerly sat and waited in the chat window to ask why my software was nowhere to be found. If you go to the site there are all sorts of infoboxes telling you that you will have INSTANT ACCESS to the software upon payment. Funny, I never EVER got access. After 3 days of hearing or speaking with nobody from FXSoftworks, they finally broke their silence telling me that the software works through their own BTC miner and that’s how the money or BTC is generated and enables one to inject funds into your account. It was then I understood that I would need to deposit another $200USD in bitcoin. Let me explain the process even to purchase bitcoin. It is like trying to secure a vile of nuclear grade plutonium from the Pentagon’s back office. Especially when your main piece of identification expired just 3 weeks before. If you’ve never purchased BTC and have no experience with it, make sure you understand FULLY what you are doing or your lack of knowledge of how it works could cost you everything. A week ago I was in a chat room with a lot of other people from around the globe and there was a couple from California there asking just about anyone they could engage, questions about reclaiming their bitcoin.As I scrolled up and read the just of it I came to realize that they did NOT follow instructions on how to create a blockchain wallet nor did they understand the difference between your wallet I.D. and your wallet address. They purchased $275,000USD in BTC. Then somewhere along the process gave someone their wallet I.D. and when they returned the next day to see their BTC, it was all gone. Overnite they were wiped out because they didn’t understand how it worked. But I’m getting off track.

So I scrounged and sold a couple digital products online and secured the $200USD in BTC and sent it to the fine and ethical people at FXSoftworks. I was excited, to say the least. Finally, I could pay a bill or two and get back on track. The date now was September 5,2017. (I sent $235CAD=0.0414125btc on September 5,2017) . The buildup was short lived as no sooner than I had made that payment, Bitcoin took a nosedive in value plummeting and losing nearly $2000USD in value in less than a week. And to make matters worse, FXSoftworks closed all the windows and locked the doors and I did NOT hear from them for 12 straight days!

Now if you were I, and struggling to stay afloat and a company with the answer to your problems suddenly wouldn’t even let you in the front doors. Would you not be upset? Would you not bang on that door as hard and as loud as you could until someone answered? I would. I did. As loud as digitally allowed! Sending a flurry of emails and spamming the shit out of the chat box until someone answered.13 days, they emerged behind their chat box window. This is what followed. Because of the current market value of Bitcoin there server is very weak and cannot keep up with consumer demand. Therefore if I wanted to use the software now, I would have to add an additional $100USD in Bitcoin. I did and sent them 0.027btc=$110USD on Saturday, September 16,2017. I came back 8 hours later even to give them time to get my software ready, then shit hit the fan. Upon getting on chat and getting a comfy place on my bed to start generating funds I was instantly transformed by the first sentence support sent me in the chat box. It read “Ok. We have received your additional injection of BTC, now all you need is to pay for the upgrade’.  ??? Excuse me??  What F#$*^!’n upgrade? I just paid for MY upgrade! You told me ‘add $100 more and you are good to go’

We exchanged words back and forth for nearly 2 hours as no matter what I said and even copy and pasted her exact words back to her, they insisted it was a misunderstanding and that the only way I was using or getting the software, was if I added an additional $290USD in BTC to their system. The gloves came off and they immediately went back into lockdown mode where they stay even now. Company head B.L. is too scared to return my email and chat support won’t even acknowledge me except to lie to me even more. Support agent D, burped a tiny response Tuesday nite saying ‘Don’t worry. You will receive your refund today’.  He lied. I didn’t receive anything.

So if anyone IS using this software, please comment below. I would like your insight into this site and maybe I’ll get my BTC back. I need it desperately. And for the anyone else who would like to check it out, please go have yourself a look but be aware they do not do business like an ethical site should.

https://www.fxsoftworks.com/

Tell em Robin@ecompayday.systems sent you.    or actually, it’s better if you didn’t. I pretty sure they hate me now but I don’t care and somehow, someway I WILL recover what they stole from me

Desperate Times

Why do we sometimes put ourselves at risk to help others?

Surely i’m not the only one who has gone out of their way to help someone, only to have that very same person throw you under the bus or incur more costs often leaving you worse off than if you hadn’t helped them at all. Why is the world that way? I myself see the world as a very ugly and unsafe place to be. When i grew up there was a certain sense of respect and people were less afraid to live. To go and knock on a neighbours door. To allow their children to venture off on their own ,seeking whatever adventures and childhood trouble they could get in to.

Surely, i can’t be the only one who has maybe risked more than they should on a less reputable course of action or pending loan application. This week has been the most turbulent of all. My friend ,who was with me and my family for over a year, is gone. Happily reunited with her baby boy , that her own parents help in taking away in the
first place. But in her wake, a trail of debt, loss of income and despair like never before. Faced with power being cut off, rent still due and still being locked out of my accounts from government policies, my once bright and flourishing new life and career are now in jeopardy of not becoming a reality.

Desperate times call for desperate measures. How do we calculate what needs to be done, or attained with what we realistically can risk or act upon ,to achieve our desired end result? Do we flip a coin or go “all in” with a best guess scenario approach? Or do we research every last possibility with a fine tooth comb ,weighing the pro’s and con’s of every last possible outcome. For me it’s always been an easy choice,although not always the best way to deal with situations like this.

You see i am a gambler. Not so much in a casino sense , but in a life sense. I have chosen to live my life a certain way and most times it works out for me. But the seemingly insurmountable heap of legitimate living costs are slowly crushing me . And very soon this new found job that i have come to love and have a passion for is all about to come crashing down.Nobody understands the cost of doing business in this space and nobody understands really what it is that i do. I try to explain and even show on my screen but for anyone not directly involved with even a tiny piece of I.M. it’s like speaking in a different language. My friend Dean Holland explains it best in a video he made for his mom some time ago.(I’ll ask him if i can post his video for next time) But it sums up what’s like to be in an industry nobody knows exists. The only true measure and validation you’ll ever receive is when you pull up to your parents house in a $250,000 supercar or pay off their house. It’s what this industry will bring you if your willing to put in the hard work. Then and only then will the people closest to you validate what you’ve been doing. But even then, they still won’t have a clear and concise picture of what we do. It’s just one of those things.

I sent a letter to a hacker a few days ago. More of a blind letter. TO my surprise , he/she replied.I explained who i was and what i did and what i needed. Through a series of back and forth emails and a plan i thought was in motion. Nope. From the moment my eyes caught the push notification in the corner of my screen, i knew this ‘hacker’ was no closer to helping me and really put me further behind. Piece of digital sh*!t. But that’s what i get. Look for answers in dark places and chances are all you’ll find is darker questions and even more darker answers.

However, there is a major positive that has emerged. Last friday i secured a position as a partner with one of the biggest lead generation and marketing companies in the U.S. I don’t know if they would allow me to mention their name on here so i’ll leave them out for now . But ya. They sought me out. i got on a call that lastest a little over 95 mins and they brought me aboard. My first global campaign goes out sept.21, 2017. So at least now ill able to have proof of what i am doing in a structure visible company.

But for now i need to address the problems happening right now. So if anyone wants to buy my truck. You know how to get ahold of me and ill leave contact details at the bottom of this page. I wanna wish everybody a great week! And can i get a “HELL YA!” for the imminent return of SNOW?!!! 🙂

I didn’t think so.

Robin. L